Merry Christmas & Happy New Year

The Christmas is just a few days ahead! Are you ready and all set up for the holidays? I hope so :) enjoy the holidays everyone, it's not about the new things that you can get this holidays but to spent it to your love ones, just enjoy yourself, do anything and eat anything you want :) Happy holidays xoxo

Being Too Skinny?

I know most of the girls wanted to look skinny and sexy, but for some girls being skinny is a problem. For me being skinny is actually a problem, many people would say that I look too skinny (which I think is actually true, a little bit haha).
There are times that I will be depressed for being like this and it comes to the point that I don't want to see some relatives because obviously they will gonna tell me that I looked so skinny, even my childhood friends. Then I forced myself to do something about it, I eat a lot I swear, my family knows that and it's kinda strange that why don't I get fat, I know some of the girls wants this; eating a lot but will not get fat.
I also notice that as the time goes by, I get thinner and thinner, which is very depressing for me, because I don't wanna go out like this, my friends will definitely gonna ask and tell me I look so thin.
Today I'm doing something that will make me gain weight, going to gym and eating healthy stuff, and I hope it will work.
This type of situation can make you depress, but for me, I got used to it and learned to love myself, my body and improve not to just sit in a corner and cry, so whenever someone would say that I'm so thin, I would just tell them this "I'm not that thin, I'm sexy!" I just added a little bit of confidence to it (haha).
So if someone will tell you that you're too skinny or too thin, well tell them no, you're just too sexy not too skinny, same for the girls who are being called fat, being fat is like saying that you have money to buy more foods. Just add some confidence to your attitude and you're ready to face the judgemental world. Goodluck ladies and embrace who you are and learn to love your imperfections because everyone has, even those supermodels that we look up to.

Being Too Skinny?

I know most of the girls wanted to look skinny and sexy, but for some girls being skinny is a problem. For me being skinny is actually a problem, many people would say that I look too skinny (which I think is actually true, a little bit haha).
There are times that I will be depressed for being like this and it comes to the point that I don't want to see some relatives because obviously they will gonna tell me that I looked so skinny, even my childhood friends. Then I forced myself to do something about it, I eat a lot I swear, my family knows that and it's kinda strange that why don't I get fat, I know some of the girls wants this; eating a lot but will not get fat.
I also notice that as the time goes by, I get thinner and thinner, which is very depressing for me, because I don't wanna go out like this, my friends will definitely gonna ask and tell me I look so thin.
Today I'm doing something that will make me gain weight, going to gym and eating healthy stuff, and I hope it will work.
This type of situation can make you depress, but for me, I got used to it and learned to love myself, my body and improve not to just sit in a corner and cry, so whenever someone would say that I'm so thin, I would just tell them this "I'm not that thin, I'm sexy!" I just added a little bit of confidence to it (haha).
So if someone will tell you that you're too skinny or too thin, well tell them no, you're just too sexy not too skinny, same for the girls who are being called fat, being fat is like saying that you have money to buy more foods. Just add some confidence to your attitude and you're ready to face the judgemental world. Goodluck ladies and embrace who you are and learn to love your imperfections because everyone has, even those supermodels that we look up to.

People Being different because of money?

MONEY, many people think that money is everything. Im also having problems towards this thing that has been controlling many people. People used to think when you have money you have everything, but you don't. Many parents all around the globe chooses money over their children, working abroad and thinking that they should do this to provide for their families, but for my own opinion, money isn't so important. Who needs money when you have a caring and loving family? who needs money when you have a parents to talk to when you're sad or troubled?

For my own experience,  money is everything for my family, they choose money over me and my siblings,  of course im not blogging this to tell you people that my parents are bad, not caring about us etc. they are so hard working that they forget they have childrens who needed them the most instead of their money. My mother used to get so angry when I spend on something that she didn't say I should pay for, even if it's a necessity thing, she will be so mad to our father for not following the things she said about handling the money.

I don't really know whats in the money that make people forget the true meaning of life. We should not always put the money on top of us or our families, you can earn the money that you worked for anytime but the time that passes by, the time you've wasted because of earning something that doesn't have a true value, it cannot be earned or be rewind.

Probably someday you'll realise that money isn't everything at all, you'll realise when it's too late. Learn to know the priorities in life, and money isn't on the top of it.

Let's be straight,  we all know we needed money to live in this world right? To pay for bills, foods and other stuffs, but my point here is don't make the money your no. 1 priority, because you're just wasting your time, there are so many good things that you're missing while you worked so hard on something that your family has more value than it.

Just remember that money is just a piece of paper for earth, don't let it run your life, or make your world to be just MONEY. When you are having a problems with money, always put in your mind that is it just an object, the feeling of others are more important than money. If your son or daughter spend on something that isn't on the budget, always I mean always talk to him or her very calmly, because money has no feelings or emotions but your son or daughter has, just imagine what he ir she will feel when you choose money over him/her? It will be very hurtful (trust me in happened to me, based on my experience).

So please, go out there and feel the true happiness of life without thinking of money. It will be happier. Goodluck

Depression?

Having a depression is a very serious issue. If you think you have diagnose yourself of having it and you strongly believing or feeling it, I have here a few tips on how you can manage it, even though its just a few, I hope that it will help just like on how it helped me.

Me myself have it, it was really hard for me, everyday was pretty rough for me, waking up and forcing myself to be normal as possible because I didn't have a choice anyway, I still need to go to school and do what normal people do just to fit in, even though I didn't go along well around people, I don't have many friends, and most of the time it was just me. Before really really really believing that you have it, please always look to the bright side of life and think that you are ok, you are fine and you don't have it. But here are a few tips I can give you

• Spend Time With Yourself

                     I guess you'll probably wondering why I put this on my list, because when you are alone you will have time for yourself, talk to yourself and think all the things you want to do and everything you wanted to discuss with yourself. Trust me it will help, but of course do not spend ALL the time to yourself, find some friends to talk to if you have a chance.

• Write

                    Write everything down, bad things or good things that happened to you, writing when you are sad or angry can help you improve your mood when you don't have someone to talk to, remember the paper and the pen is your very bestfriend because you can tell everything to it without him judging you. I actually do this all the time,and in the future, try reading it and you'll remember how brave you were that day.

• Go Outside More

                        Go outside and explore new things, spending your time in new places can help you a lot, so if you have nothing to do at home, try going out, especially to the places that has many plants and trees because your mind can relax and won't think too much, going to parks of museums will do and don't forget to bring your camera with you!

• Read A Book

                        Reading a book can take you to another world and make your mind forget for a little while, red fantasy books if you want yourself to be entertained or any novel you like. Going to another is not impossible, just open a book and read and your there in just a seconds.

• Do Some Sports

                        Get in to some sports that you like to keep yourself busy or of you don't like getting into sports try working out, set your goals on what you want to achieve in the working that your doing, like you wanted some flat belly, or six pck abs so that your mind can focus on it not in your problems.


To relieve your depression is not always by drinking the medicine, because in some cases the depression worsens when you are drinking too much medicine, you can relieve the depression in natural ways and in the simple ways. Talk to someone who is so close to you they will help you a lot.


These are just my few tips for those people who have it just like me, I hope it helps you like it helped me


GOODLUCK! xoxo